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Before we start this column, you’ll need to watch the 55 second video above for it to make sense (click on the one with the three bottles; not the picture of the young man).  Warning:  Some of you won’t like it.  I get that.  That’s why we’re...				
					
			
					
											
								 
							
					
															
					
					Aug 19, 2025 | Feature Articles
What Martin Luther King, Jr. DIDN’T Say 61 Years Ago Speaking at a recent online event, a key piece of the presentation focused on how we open our talks. I’m on a mission to get people to stop ramping up to the middles. One of the worst starts I see, time...				
					
			
					
											
								 
							
					
															
					
					Aug 7, 2025 | Feature Articles, Uncategorized
When I was a high school junior, I hit upon that certain rite of passage that so many of us do: college application essays.  This was back in the day when we wrote them and maybe showed them to our parents, as compared to today’s parents hiring a ghost writer to...				
					
			
					
											
								 
							
					
															
					
					Jul 8, 2025 | Feature Articles, Uncategorized
We’ve likely all heard the old psychological game, “Don’t picture a pink elephant.”  Once you’ve heard that, you can’t not see it.  Let’s take that a step further: we could show someone a picture and say, “Look at this picture...				
					
			
					
											
								 
							
					
															
					
					Mar 29, 2025 | Feature Articles
“Vonn” came to me wanting to be more effective as a speaker.  His material was fairly well-organized (okay, we worked on it some, but that wasn’t the real issue).  The real problem was that Vonn’s presentation style was flat, emotionless, and bland;...				
					
			
					
											
								 
							
					
															
					
					May 15, 2024 | Feature Articles, Uncategorized
Sometimes, it’s just not easy to make it clear what we do for people. Recently, a company just south of San Diego contacted me to ask me to run a public speaking skills class for sixteen of their top managers.  I asked the cause for the class and heard back from...